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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

14.06.2025 00:35

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

What is your most intimate experience with your best friend?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

Can you share the entire summary of your spiritual life?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

What is treasury?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

If yes, what?

What's the funniest thing you heard in a movie theater?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

How can I get a girlfriend? I am 26.

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

My wife found I had been on Pornhub. She considers this adultery and wants a divorce. She hasn't touched me in over 6 years. What should I do?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

Would you read them together?

What's your wildest & weirdest fantasy?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

Can you write a poem or short story based on the first image that shows up on Pinterest?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

Who writes and reads novels nowadays?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

Why am I always so tired, no matter how much I sleep?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

Any that are a turn off?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

Any that are a turn off?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

If you win, what will you make them do?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

*** Random Questions ***

How old are you? Male or Female?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

Nothing too Serious

Family Relation Age Play

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

What is your favorite position? Why?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

52~ What are your hobbies?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

The Ice Breaker Questions

*** Questions About Me ***

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

Please share Did you stop?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

29- How superstitious are you?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

39~ What are your love languages?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?